Many sex toys are intended for solo use, which restricts their flexibility. Lovense toys smoothly connect with the extraordinary Lovense app, greatly improving intimacy for both long-distance and close-range relationships.
What exactly is the Lovense Remote app, and how does it work?
The Lovense Remote App is very user-friendly and allows you to easily control your Lovense toys from almost any place. You can use it for a variety of solo play options. Alternatively, you can connect with your partner’s app for a mutual experience. The app offers several options such as adjusting vibration levels, video chatting, in-app messaging, syncing multiple toys and even playing music.
Determine precisely which devices collaborate, examine all the app’s features and learn how to improve your experience with your high-tech sex toys.
How to connect a toy?
- Turn on your Lovense toy
- Enable Bluetooth on your device (smartphone/Windows PC/Mac)
- Launch the Lovense Remote app
- Tap/click the “+” button and select “Add toy” to search for available devices
- Once your Lovense toy appears in the list, tap on it to connect
- Wait for a confirmation message or icon indicating the toy is connected

Lovense toys stand out for their reliable connections, making them perfect for seamless solo or long-distance play. With the ability to control your toy from anywhere, you can adjust settings without needing to physically handle it—allowing for hands-free pleasure.
For live sex sessions, there are even more features, such as syncing vibrations with your partner’s movements, secure chat and video options, and a variety of other features that will enhance your experience. You’ll love the range of possibilities that ensure privacy and pleasure every time.
Close Distance Control
This easy short-range control is perfect for solo play, giving you hands-free fun, but it’s also great for passing to your partner, letting them take control from across the room.
Whether you’re in your bedroom or at your favorite restaurant, you can bring the excitement with you. Most Lovense toys are discreet and quiet, so you can enjoy some kinky moments just about anywhere.
When playing in close quarters, you have these options to enhance the experience:
Remote Control
When you’re close to your partner, you can control the toy’s vibrations in real time. A pink floating circle appears when you choose the “Tap and Slide Panel” option. To adjust the intensity, simply slide the circle up or down. For a continuous experience, select “Float,” or choose “Loop” to repeat a vibration pattern once it’s set.
The “Traditional Panel” function works similarly, but instead of the floating circle, you’ll use a slider. Drag it up for stronger vibrations or down for a softer feel, giving you full control over the intensity.
My Patterns

There are four preset patterns that you can find here.
If you prefer not to create your own, you can choose from a variety of pre-made patterns. You can also adjust the speed and intensity of these patterns to suit your preferences.
Additionally, there’s a collection of unlimited patterns created by other users, available for you to explore right here.
For those feeling creative, you can design your own unique vibration pattern and adjust its intensity by selecting the “Create Pattern” button.
Once you’ve created your pattern, you can save, download, and share it with other Lovense users. Alternatively, tap “Patterns” at the bottom of your screen to browse thousands of patterns already shared by others. Just download your favorites and enjoy!

Music
You can sync your toy’s vibrations with the music library on your phone, allowing the beats to control your next pleasure patterns.
Sound
This feature is perfect for when you’re at a bar or club. The toy syncs with the background music, vibrating to the rhythm of the beats.
You can also adjust the microphone’s sensitivity to fine-tune the experience and get the most out of it. And if your partner’s voice is particularly enticing, the toy can even sync with their voice, adding an extra layer of excitement for both of you. It’s truly an amazing way to intensify the experience!
Alarm
You can opt for a sensual and stimulating wake-up experience by inserting your Lovense toy (or slip vibrator) before bed and setting the exact time you want to be woken up with teasing vibrations. The only downside? You might get so caught up in the pleasure that you end up running late for work!
Long Distance Control
Anyone who has experienced a long-distance relationship understands the challenges it brings. Whether you’re separated by vast continents or just a few miles due to a pandemic, maintaining intimacy and emotional connection demands creativity and effort.
Late-night phone calls, sexting, thoughtful gifts, and heartfelt notes remain timelessly romantic. However, thanks to advancements in technology, long-distance dating has evolved into new (and more adventurous) territories. With video chat platforms like Zoom and FaceTime, you can feel almost as close as being in the same room.
And while physical touch might be limited, you can still explore intimacy with yourself—and your partner—thanks to some of the best couples’ sex toys available today.

The future of long-distance intimacy has arrived, powered by app- and Bluetooth-enabled sex technology. These innovative devices can help keep your connection exciting and alleviate sexual frustration (just remember to use plenty of lube and clean them thoroughly before and after each use).
Even in long-distance mode, you and your partner can enjoy nearly the same level of control as you would in person.
While using the app and your Lovense toy, there are plenty of additional fun ways to engage with your partner(s) and keep the spark alive.
How does it work?
Imagine this: when you stroke your Calor, your partner’s toy will instantly respond with vibrations, contractions, or rotations—and the same goes for them. This means you can skip the texting (if you want) and instead focus on watching each other during a video call, whether through the Lovense Remote app or another third-party platform.
Experience real-time, simultaneous sensations that bring you closer than ever, creating the most realistic and interactive long-distance intimacy possible.
Here’s how to set it up:
- Make sure you and your partner has your toys connected
- Tap “+” on the top right to add your partner
- When your toys are synced, tap “Remote Control” to switch to “Long-Distance Sex” mode. Then, sit back and enjoy!

You can adjust the sensitivity of your own toy as per your preferences.
If only one partner has Nora, Max 2, Calor, or Lovense Sex Machine, and another partner has any other Lovense toy, you can still benefit from this feature.
In this case, tap <= to give control to your partner. Now, when they move their toy, your toy will react.
Long Distance Sync
With the Sync feature, you can connect your partner’s toys with yours and control both at the same time. Whether you’re close by or miles apart, all of our toys can sync seamlessly over any distance.
Here’s how:
- Make sure you and your partner have your toys connected
- Tap “+” on the top right to add your partner
- Send them a request by tapping “Sync”
Now you can control both toys with the panel or tap <= to pass control to the other partner.

Lovense Interactive Sex Toys Synchronization
Lovense’s range of interactive sex toys brings couples closer than ever, enabling incredibly realistic remote intimacy—even when separated by thousands of miles.
When one toy vibrates, the other responds in sync, creating a seamless interactive experience that allows couples to connect and play together, no matter the distance.
Any app-connected Lovense toy can sync with another Lovense device, and you can even involve more than two people in your sessions. A classic example is pairing the Nora rabbit vibrator with the Max 2 male masturbator, but you can also connect two Lush 3 toys if that’s your preference.
To get started, simply use the Lovense app and enable Bluetooth to link your toys. Begin with some teasing and video chatting as usual, then take things to the next level by adding one or more toys for an unforgettable long-distance experience. Here’s what you can expect:
- Quick Reaction Time: Feel your partner’s movements in near real-time, creating an immersive and responsive connection.
- Shared Sensations: With high-tech sex gadgets, you’ll experience every action your partner takes during the session.
- Secure Communication: Your video chats remain encrypted, and messages are sent directly to your partner’s device through Lovense’s secure platform. Lovense’s servers never access your video sessions or messages.
- Smart Playback: If frequent connections aren’t possible, you can record the movements and sounds of each session to replay later.
- Flexible Video Options: Prefer not to use Lovense’s video chat software? No problem. Connect your toys to the Lovense app and use third-party video services like Skype, Messenger, or similar to see each other.
With Lovense, distance is no longer a barrier to intimacy.
